Writing

I’ve been writing about CEO shit since 2020: the things you can’t talk about with your family, your team, or your investors. Here are a few places to start.

SystemsScaling skillfully

  1. How to scale a company the hard way

    I scaled a company from 15 to 75 people in nine months, broke most of it, and fixed it. The scaffolding I wish I’d had.

  2. How to pitch a big vision without setting yourself up to let people down

    Investors want conviction, and you’re mostly uncertain. How to own what you don’t know and still sell the vision.

  3. How to delegate

    If everything runs through you, you’ll hit your first wall around 15-25 people. A step-by-step guide to delegating problems.

PeopleInterdependence

  1. Why most ‘culture work’ actually hurts your company

    Why the usual culture playbook backfires, and where a real culture actually comes from.

  2. How to fix your cofounder relationship in 3 simple, difficult steps

    Three steps that are simple, hard, and effective: say what’s true, clear what’s been withheld, and keep it clean as you go.

  3. Managing your board of directors

    How to stop being babysat by your board, take your seat as its chair, and turn it into the highest-leverage team you have.

SelfPersonal mastery

  1. How to meditate (a brief guide for founders & leaders)

    Most founders misunderstand meditation, which is why they skip it. What it actually does for your leadership, and how to start.

  2. The CEO’s Personal Management System

    The specific systems effective CEOs use to run themselves, pulled from hundreds of coaching sessions.

  3. The Juggling Act of a Creative Life

    How ambition can burn the rest of your life. The specific failure mode I and others have lived through.

MindThe inner game

  1. Anxiety: A user’s guide

    Anxiety is expensive to feel and more expensive to avoid. How to work with it skillfully instead of around it.

  2. On Shame

    Say the word Shame in a room of CEOs and the attention gets dense. How to turn this powerful emotion to your favor.

  3. The many names of fear

    Fear rarely calls itself fear. Learn how to catch it steering your decisions, and how to work with it.

  4. When a part of you isn’t helping

    An introduction to Internal Family Systems (IFS), the practice I use most with founders for patterns insight alone can’t shift.

HeartPurpose, meaning, and vocation

  1. The Midlife Reorientation: a user’s guide

    “WTF is happening to me?” A map for the midlife transition, and how to move through it with some grace.

  2. Finding purpose after exiting your company

    I reached the summit after fifteen years and it didn’t solve anything. What comes after the exit, and how to build your own purpose.

  3. How to do vocation honestly

    Big goals run on a quiet feeling of not being enough. A model for finding your Work, beyond what fits your skills and temperament.

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I write when I have something to say. Typically about CEO shit. Always high signal, low noise.

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